What Matters Most...

MWAH!!!

2009-12-19T17:21:00.002-07:00

Very cute way to start off the Christmas break!

A visit from the North Pole...

2009-12-05T22:07:00.004-07:00

We have a visitor spending his days with us until Christmas....

It is Zach our elf.

His first visit 12.2.09

He stopped by to make sure we are all behaving. Zach leaves each night to report to Santa. He is magical, if you touch him the magic stops. Every morning he comes back, always sitting in a different spot to watch another day...

12.3.0912.4.09

12.5.09

We have the BEST dentist!!!!

2009-12-02T21:29:00.002-07:00

We have the BEST dentist ever. Not only good, but generous!

Dr's Chris Hammond and Todd Ellis have the best practice & parties around. This past summer they had a back to school blast that included Fat Catz, prizes, and face painting....

They also had a great winter party at Seven Peaks Ice Arena. Ice skating, hot cocoa, donuts, prizes (Ash won a gift cert to Toys R Us) and a visit & picture with the BIG guy, Santa.(the pic gets sent to each home as a Christmas card).

I love this office.

I wish my childhood dentist was a fraction as good.

PS....Did I mention they have a ZEN room at the office. You can sit in the most amazing massage chair while being left alone in a private room with dim lights and candles,to listen to music or watch TV.... Bliss, pure bliss. I will NEVER run errands while Ashlyn is at the dentist again. I am sitting in the HAPPY chair from now on!

Our Traditions....

2009-11-29T21:07:00.001-07:00

Sam and Ashlyn LOVE setting up the train.
In college I worked at a Christmas store, and was lucky enough to buy an expensive LGB train with a smoking engine. I never imagined I would let my 8 year old put it together and PLAY with it, but I do.... She loves the train even more than Sam does.

Setting up the track.....

Playing with the "people".....
Oops! This guy was trying to fix the tank, and fell in!

Dobie supervising, and wondering when he gets a turn.

A must see...

2009-11-28T22:29:00.001-07:00

This has to be one of my all time favorite movies. Made me want to be a better person, and love unconditionally.
I laughed, I cried...

The best line was: " Who would've thought we'd have a black son before we met a Democrat?"

So funny, especially if you know people from the south!

Many Thanks....

2009-11-26T20:49:00.001-07:00

Our little pilgrim...

This was the first time(that I can remember) that it was just our immediate family for Thanksgiving. I was supposed to work from 6am to 6pm, which meant I would not be there for dinner. I was blessed to be given the chance to go home early and have dinner with my wonderful family.
I have so many things to be grateful for. I have an amazing family and a loving husband who is so talented and helpful. I have a beautiful, fun daughter who enjoys life to the fullest. Wonderful friends and coworkers. I am grateful for a job that I love. I am blessed with parents and parents in law that love me, and who serve me unconditionally. I am blessed to know I am loved by my Heavenly father and I know I have him to thank for all my blessings.

Midnight, New Moon....

2009-11-19T20:37:00.000-07:00

Can you believe we fought the crowds and stayed up....WAY up.... past our bed times to see a MOVIE???
Yep, We did! And it was SO worth it!

It's a ZOO out there...

2009-11-06T17:15:00.002-07:00

What a great time to go to the zoo! In case you have not heard.... It is baby time at Hogle Zoo.
The main attraction is ZURI, the most adorable & playful elephant. She was born 8/10/09 weighing a mere 251lbs and 36 inches tall!

Off to the giraffes. Guess what? A sweet "big" baby! Here is a pic of a giraffe doing something I have never seen. He kept slipping... I was so afraid he was going to snap one of those long legs in half.

Sweet "baby" 7 feet tall. Mom is 16 feet tall. Beautiful creatures!

Then off to the cats. My favorite was the snow leopard and her cub. I was so in love I forgot to take a picture( here is one courtesy of Utah's Hogle Zoo website :).

While I was wondering if I could take the baby snow leopard home, Sam snapped these pics of momma tiger and one of her three cubs.

Baby did not enjoy having its picture taken!

We got the biggest kick out of this squirrel storing up at one of the many bird feeders . Smart guy figured how to get from the tree, and sort through finding all the sunflower seeds.

Star Wars Halloween...

2009-11-06T14:11:00.003-07:00

Well, after countless hours of questioning and a blog poll, Ashlyn chose to be Padme'. Sorry to all of you that voted for Cleopatra, but this girl loves her Star Wars.
Dobie, on the other hand, did not enjoy being an Ewok

Protecting the universe and shooting a zombie.

FriGHtFuL FeAsT....

2009-11-04T11:08:00.011-07:00

Mummy Meatloaf...
Vampire Blood...

Witches Teeth & Mashed Potato Ghost's...

Skeleton Bones....
Graveyard Dirt...

This is my attempt. I wanted to do something fun for Halloween dinner. After a LONG google search, this is what I came up with. I just wish my planning included a much better estimation of how much time the meal would actually take to prepare. (I am amazed what a little "Focus" can do to ones energy, thus speedy cooking.) The meal was ready WAY before Sam and Ash finished visiting the grandparents. In return the bones were quite brittle and the mummy was petrifying in the oven.... Oh,well! A girl can try...

It's a parade...

2009-10-30T16:19:00.001-06:00

Someone loves everyone cheering for her!!!!

Ashlyn and Mrs. Kuhni
Grandma & Grandpa

We love going to the Halloween parade...

Great way to get excited for HALLOWEEN!

Us...by Sam....

2009-10-29T09:07:00.007-06:00

Ashlyn's creation....Great use of the "whole pumpkin". More pumpkins should have horns!

The final product. Sam is so very talented.

His carpal tunnel and eczema are acting up, yet he worked through the pain

HE IS AWESOME!

For more of Sam's great work in the past go HERE ... http://blackham3.blogspot.com/2008/10/talent.html

I can't resist...

2009-10-21T09:17:00.001-06:00

More...

2009-10-20T10:28:00.002-06:00

A sneak peek!

2009-10-13T21:08:00.000-06:00

Can you believe those eyes!!! I LOVE her EYES!!! No lipstick on those lips, my friends...just her natural beauty, and a bit of Chap stick! Thanks to my cousin Jess White of Bliss Portraits! I cannot wait to see the rest!!!!
I have never been more blessed in my life... I thank God everyday for the opportunity to raise such an amazing and beautiful daughter.

Goodbye, Twinkle Berry Smith....

2009-10-03T18:34:00.008-06:00

Today we lost our 20 year old kitty, Twinkie. Our hearts are heavy as we say goodbye to our ornery, independent, and loyal family member...

A good sport, while being dressed up.

An attempt at a family Christmas pic. One where the dog is not trying to eat the cat!

This one needs no explanation...

Twinkie was abandoned as a few weeks old kitten. Found and hand fed by my sister Kim, and named by my 2 year old niece, Lacie. When she was about 2 years old she went to live with my boyfriend(later to be my hubby) Sam, and his family. There she lived until Sam and I got married and built our home. She was a very unique cat. Not overly loving in any way. She was truly the BOSS. A cat that never rubbed against a leg searching for attention, or knew what to do outside. She would duck as birds flew over her head. Her world changed when we introduced her to our baby girl in 2001, and then again in 2004 with the arrival of "the dog". I had many regrets after getting Dobie, because Twink then chose to live downstairs as a total recluse for a year or two, only to sneak up for food or a nighttime cuddle initiated by her and ONLY her. She was our first "kid". Those of you who have had pets before children know how much your pets become your children. Then those "children" are replaced by cute little drooling totally dependent children. When we realized Ashlyn would be our only cute little drooling child, we chose to adopt a dog. A "brother" for Ashlyn. The dog was a perfect fit for all of us, except Twink. Dobie was a puppy and wanted to play. Twink was an old cat that wasn't very friendly. The two were like oil and water. She learned to tolerate Dobie and steer clear of him, except those times when we were in the room, and she knew the dog would get a yelling at for bugging the cat. She was a tease. She did get a few breaks when we would go on vacation, she would get a vacation from Dobie. She loved going to Grandma and Grandpa Blackham's house. Her health had been declining over the last 6 months, with a diagnosis of congestive heart failure. She required meds for the last 4 months of her life. She did not seem to suffer until the last few days.... Her breathing became difficult and she would not eat much. I prayed her heart would give out and stop while she was sleeping. My prayer was answered when we found her this morning "asleep". Our family is devastated. I knew she wasn't going to live much longer, I though I was "prepared". I had no idea how much this cat touched my heart. We will miss her immensely, were lucky to have her in our family for so long.....We can only hope we touched her life and that she knew how much we loved her, despite all the annoyances we added to her very long pampered life :)

Bowers family summer party....

2009-08-29T20:05:00.001-06:00

The Whole gang....

Gene, Dell, Ken, JoAnn, Bob and Dean.

Can you tell they are siblings?

Cute cousin's, love playing together!

Twin Uncle's Dean and Gene...celebrated a BIG birthday!

We had our annual Bowers family summer party.We had such a great time. Cousin Greg and his fiance' Sabrina came from Washington. Aunt JoAnn and uncle Dennis came from Scottsdale, AZ. We were so happy to see them. It has been WAY to long. I am so blessed to come from such a close family.

You get to vote...

2009-08-25T20:25:00.010-06:00

After many intense online searches made by one indecisive eight year old girl... Ashlyn has asked that you, our family and friends, vote on her attire for HALLOWEEN! Your choices are......(drum roll please)

Cleopatra,
Plutarch indicates that "her beauty, as we are told, was in itself not altogether incomparable, nor such as to strike those who saw her."Rather, what ultimately made Cleopatra attractive were her wit, charm and "sweetness in the tones of her voice."
Elphaba,
(nickname Elphie) the green girl who becomes the Wicked Witch of the West
In both the novel and musical, Elphaba is the intense, broody, smart heroine who often carries a sense of burden of her oddness.

Padmé Amidala,
Is depicted in Star Wars fiction as beautiful and graceful. In Cloak of Deception, she is described as having "a slight figure and a lovely, feminine face. She was remarkably solemn for one so young. She took her responsibilities with the utmost seriousness."
Now you have all the details, and Ash is trusting all of you to make the right decision. You may leave your vote in a message, or vote on the poll to the right!!!

First Day Of Third Grade....

2009-08-19T20:30:00.000-06:00

Despite all the comments about never going back to school.....

ASHLYN STARTED THIRD GRADE!!!!!

It takes my breath away to say that! Where did the time go???

I love this girl and know she will do many great things with her life. She LOVES so strong. CARES so deeply, and is so SECURE in who she is.....

Happy Birthday to...ME!

2009-07-22T12:35:00.003-06:00

I am blogging my birthday because i will no longer be having them...I will forever stay...36. That really hurts to say out loud. I am in morning a little. It is hard knowing i am closer to the big 4-0 than 30! My dad told me once that he loved his forty's. Not so sure...i will just experience them as a 36 year old.

Thanks to all my friends and family for the phone calls, text's, Facebook wishes, and gifts!

My great friends sent this cake to work. Susan Fox is the best! Thanks girls!

(ps. I blogged our June mesquite trip...keep scrolling down)

Proud to be an American...

2009-07-07T19:28:00.009-06:00

Our fourth of July was PACKED with fun!

We started our day as we do every 4th...

getting up at dawns early light...

5:30 to be exact. I love hot air balloons on the 4th of July.

This was the 25th year of the Freedom Festival balloons. I remember as a child hearing the announcer from our home on Grandview and running out to our deck to watch the balloons fly over the house.

Annual breakfast...

The Parade...

Grandma Blackham was in the parade!

Then off to the Porter's party...
Great BBQ!

A beautiful memorial for Don...not a dry eye in the house.

Water games...

Ashlyn going down!

Ashlyn LOVED the dunk tank.{we just noticed huge bruises on her legs from being dunked too many times!}

After a FULL day of activities, we still had one more place to go...

Stadium of Fire, featuring the Jonas Brothers and SHeDAISY. Oh, and don't forget the world award winning FIREWORKS!

Watching for KEVIN JONAS!!!!{Ash's favorite}

I have to admit...I really like the Jonas Bros music.
Sam is also now a closet Jonas fan... shhh... don't tell anyone ;)

The whole gang.

F-16's. The Pilots were just back from Afghanistan.

Lacie and Chase

It ended up being 18 hours of a great fourth of July!

Happy Birthday America. I am so proud to call you my HOME.

HOME of the FREE, HOME of the BRAVE!

Loss of a LEGEND...

2009-07-07T15:27:00.003-06:00

(This was my favorite poster that hung lovingly on my wall)

I am a product of the 80's, and I LOVED Michael Jackson. I am saddened that the world has lost an amazing dancer, song writer, singer and humanitarian. Although, my love has faded over the years, my heart still hurts. I hope we can all remember him for all the good he did and the legacy he will leave behind. He IS the KING of POP, and also my first crush! (sorry dad-I know how much you despised his posters on my wall)

I made a play list of a few of my fave MJ songs. I challenge you to sit back, listen and not sing or dance...not at all possible :)

Summa time...

2009-06-19T12:11:00.001-06:00

Our annual Mesquite trip...

Checked on Mom and Dad's Winter home.

The girls watched...

Seriously, bawled like a baby.

(Cried harder during UP than My Sisters Keeper!)

The boys watched...

Great time at the pool party....How low can YOU go?

Ash wearing her Limbo prize!

So happy the entire family could go this year!

Many lives...

2009-06-17T21:29:00.003-06:00

She is a fighter!

I am not sure how many lives she has left...

Moab...

2009-06-12T21:57:00.008-06:00

Sunday, we had the pleasure of taking Morgan back to Moab. She has been guiding whitewater rafting trips in Moab, for World Wide River. We did not "plan" on taking a 24 hour trip to Moab, or any trip for that matter... We ended up having a great time. I had never been to that part of Utah. I am hooked. What a cool town! I could live in such a town (if they only had a Target.) I am making "plans" to go back to do more hiking and take a tour with Morgan down the river! We left on Sunday around 4:30 pm... dropped Morgan off about 8-8:30... searched for a hotel... to bed around 10:00... up at 7am... breakfast... rock/fossil shop for our little "rock hound"... Arches national park at 9am... hiked and awed until 12pm... then back home... jiggity, jig! We arrived back home 4:00pm Monday. Wow! Crazy, yet fun. Very spontaneous. I am a "planner" and have not done something like this in a long time, OR, maybe never. I was so worried about having everything for everyone (we had about one hours notice), I forgot my own jammies! But, don't you fret. I did not forget the camera, or two outfits for Ashlyn (will it be cold? will it be hot?)

Even though we were worrying about Sybelle the entire time, we are glad we could help out and see beautiful Moab at the same time!

It's GREAT to be 8!!!

2009-06-06T19:00:00.031-06:00

Today, our darling daughter was baptized.

The program was beautiful, and so very spiritual.

Thanks to the wonderful speakers, and musicians.

My Dad spoke so lovingly about Ashlyn and her new BFF, the Holy Ghost.

Sybelle, shared such sweet feelings about baptism.

Morgan and Sam Sr. shared a beautiful musical number, a Child's Prayer...

We are blessed to have so many family and friends who support Ashlyn, in her decision to become a member of the

Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.

Words cannot express...

How much we love her, and how proud we are of her!

We love Ashlyn's innocence.

Ashlyn is an amazing girl...so insightful, thoughtful, and loving.

We are so lucky to be her parents!

~~~~~~~~~~~~~

A few memories, I would like to share...

*** Just before the program Ashlyn commented on how this would be the "best day of my life!"
***After she was baptized, as she was drying off, she said..."Look, I am all clean...and ALL CLEAN!"

Ashlyn's program cover...Thanks to Sam, her program was beautiful!

Thanks to my Mom, we had a wonderful luncheon afterwards.

The sunset on her "best day ever!"

Summer has begun...

2009-05-29T09:34:00.004-06:00

The last day of school...

DANCE FESTIVAL!!!

The entire school performs on the last day of school.

The second grade performed a dance to the cutest montage of snowman songs.

Thanks to Julie...The song they danced to is playing...

The melting snowmen...

I would have posted a video, had I not messed up and pushed pause instead of play. Oops. I have officially been banned from the camcorder. Thank goodness my hubby is a great photographer!

Ash with Mrs. Thurgood

The cutest teacher with the cutest kid
Thanks to everyone{Grandma's and Pa's, Morgan, Lisa and Katie bug} for coming to support Ashlyn moving on to the 3rd grade. WOW, another year flew by. Now i need to find something productive for us to do this summer. Or, shall i say... for Ashlyn to do!
Wish me luck.

WAY TO GO CHASE!!!

2009-05-29T09:30:00.000-06:00

He did it...

We are so proud of you Chase!

PHS Class of 2009!

Now on to real life...Best of luck to you stud muffin...

Success means having the courage,

the determination,

and the will to become the person you believe you were meant to be.

~George Sheehan

Remembering...

2009-05-25T20:46:00.001-06:00

Remembering...That is what Memorial day means to me.
Remembering those who have passed.
Those who have served our country.
Those who died for my freedom.
Those who fight everyday for our freedom...

This year we headed to Moroni and Mt. Pleasant with Sam, Sybelle, Sarah, and Morgan. Dad Blackham took us on the "trek" around the cemeteries. I appreciate the time he takes to learn more about his heritage so he can teach us. He had great stories to share with us. Sam made the comment about how Ashlyn was different this year. She is grown up and understood so much more about honoring those loved ones. She also was quite concerned about not being able to put flowers on all the "Blackham" graves. If you have ever been to the Moroni cemetery, every other grave seems to be a Blackham. So, she went along picking every dandelion and placing it on the "Blackham" graves. Running around saying"here's another Blackham". She is so cute, I love her thoughtfulness.

I am grateful we were able to spend time as a family remembering...

Another great movie...

2009-05-25T19:36:00.002-06:00

Loved, loved, loved it!

Hilarious!

Laughed so hard i had tears!

Hank Azaira is so funny.

I am already making plans to go see it again.

Two thumbs up...WAY up!

Enchanted...

2009-05-14T14:32:00.006-06:00

Ashlyn has been a part of the wonderful acting group, Up With Kids. Her class performed "Enchanted." Ashlyn's parts{which she chose} were: Celia(from Monsters Inc.), mouse and a bride. She did an exceptional job...even the president of Up With Kids commented on how well she did. Ashlyn is a natural drama queen, and has a memory like no other. She can recite talks she gave in church last year. Up With Kids is an acting/confidence building group. I am not so sure Ash needs the confidence building part...She is so secure in who she is, I could use some of her confidence. She takes her acting serious, and takes direction very well. I wish I could "direct" her so well...

Before the performance. In her Celia costume.

She was awarded the outstanding performer award from Miss Allison.

Ashlyn with Miss Allison

We are very blessed to have family close so they can share these experiences with us!

It's your birthday!!!

2009-05-04T10:33:00.008-06:00

Any man can be a father,

but it takes a special person to be a DAD...

My dad is the best dad in the entire world. He is kind, selfless, loving, humble, generous, a great business man & a hard worker. I have often been told "you are just like your dad..." This is a compliment, a huge compliment. I love you daddy! Here's to many, many more birthdays.

Here are a few people who love you too..

My handsome nephew Chase...

2009-05-03T16:46:00.005-06:00

Here are a few graduation pics Sam took of my nephew Chase.
There are many more. I will post them after graduation :)

True miracles...

2009-04-30T21:58:00.004-06:00

“Love works in miracles every day: such as weakening the strong, and strengthening the weak; making fools of the wise, and wise men of fools; favouring the passions, destroying reason, and in a word, turning everything topsy-turvy.”
Marguerite De Valois
Working in the NICU has made me a bit of a fool...The last two days I had the privilege of taking care of a true miracle. I love having a new perspective on life, and my career. I am blessed...

BACK to school...

2009-04-20T10:48:00.002-06:00

For both of us...

A WICKED Day 5...

2009-04-19T23:41:00.004-06:00

DAY FIVE... WOW! What a great end to a fun spring break. We went to see Wicked. LOVED it!
Wicked is about a land where animals talk and strive to be treated like first-class citizens, Munchkinlanders seek the comfort of middle-class stability, and the Tin Man becomes a victim of domestic violence. And then there is the little green-skinned girl named Elphaba, who will grow up to become the infamous Wicked Witch of the West, a smart, prickly, and misunderstood creature who challenges all our preconceived notions about the nature of good and evil. I posted a few fave quotes in my words of wisdom.
Wicked was by far the BEST play I have ever seen. Totally appropriate for kids [ 4 and up] and the grown-ups loved it. I highly recommend seeing it. If you need someone to go with, I want to go again;) We loved it so much, we are thinking of planning a trip to L.A. to see it again.

We had great seats...The 2 1/2 hours FLEW by...

WE LOVE WICKED!

We are blessed to have had such a great weekend. Thanks for everything mom! Thank you Dad for watching D3{"dearest Momsie and Popsical"}. Sam and Sybelle for watching tink. And last but not least, LISA for having an "in" and getting us such great tickets!

Spring Break...Day 4

2009-04-18T21:11:00.002-06:00

Off to Salt Lake City...

First stop.

If you have never eaten at Moochie's, it is an absolute MUST! These cheesesteak sandwiches are close to the real deal.

Then we were off to ...

WE PLAYED IN THE OCEAN...

Under the Sea 3D transported us to some of the most exotic and isolated undersea locations on Earth. Allowing us to experience face-to-face encounters with some of the most mysterious and stunning creatures of the sea.

I would pay to see it again if given the chance.

Ashlyn forecasted the weather...

Walked on the moon...

Went to mars...apparently turned into an alien;D

Went swimming at the Hilton . Ashlyn loves to swim. She could care less that we did not go to San Diego for spring break as planned. She loved our trip to SLC just as much... They have swimming pools in the hotels. That is what matters the most to our little fishy!

After swimming for a few hours we went to eat...

Great gourmet burgers. Fun modern place.

I loved that we did things out of our "norm".

After dinner we picked up dessert at PF Chang's{great wall of chocolate- yum!} went back to the hotel, dived into dessert then, dived into the POOL again!
Great Spring Break day 4!!!

Spring BREAK...Day 3!

2009-04-17T20:38:00.008-06:00

CLEANING!

Hey...It can't be all fun ;p
Notice...no toys on the floor! Yippee!
Getting ready for a yard sale or D.I. One of the two.

Forecast

Today
Mostly Cloudy
High 57°
Low 38°

Tomorrow
Partly Sunny
High 60°
Low 42°

Sunday
Mostly Sunny
High 67°
Low 46°

Monday
Mostly Sunny
High 72°
Low 49°

Tuesday
Mostly Sunny
High 76°
Low 50

76*. Can you believe it? Too bad it is one week late...

SpRinG BrEAk...Day 2

2009-04-16T10:30:00.003-06:00

What a great day...despite waking up to 8" of snow.

Welcome to "SPRING" in good ol' Utah.

I think this photo says it all. One half winter one half spring.

{this photo was taken in snowless Sandy}

We started our day at the Living Planet Aquarium in Sandy. The girls had a great time...

{what a cute group of girls}

After soaking themselves in the Stingray pond...

We HAD to get new shirts at the new Nordstrom Rack.

After our unexpected shopping trip, we attempted to go to lunch at the Mayan...No such luck.

Closed for lunch.

We headed to T.G.I.Fridays. Had fun & ate way too much!

After lunch, we ended our day at Jordan Commons megaplex...

Great movie!

{a little more violent than i expected}

We had another great day with our great friends!

Bring on Spring break days 3-5, and the sun that has been promised to me :p

Enjoyin' Spring break..Day1

2009-04-15T16:51:00.005-06:00

What to do on a miserable snowy first day of spring break?
Answer: Get pampered...
I HAD to get my haircut and Ash needed a trim, so we ended up at Season's Day spa. I have had my appointment for 4 weeks. I felt a little guilty about scheduling an appointment on the first day of spring break. However, this girl is so good you schedule around her, not vice versa. When I woke up this morning I was faced with the dilemma of... What to do with the child home from school? So, I called and got her a last minute appointment. While I was having the newest grey covered, Ash was totally pampered. She loved every minute if it. She even talked all of us into cutting bangs. This is a HUGE deal for both of us. Don't get me wrong...I love bangs on kids...just not on the kid who hates things on her face! This ought to be interesting. She feels so grown up, and now really looks 12 not 8. I finished up my with my hair, then was off to some much needed waxing when I found Ashlyn surrounded by spa workers who were trying to convince me "this girl needs more pampering". Ashlyn was really into this spa thing at this point and was asking for all kinds of treatments. So, we settled on "twinkle toes"

The pampering comes to an end...

Results....Darling twinkle toes! The result....Happy Mom...Happy Daughter!We had a great afternoon. We both look great and feel great too.

Bring on day two!

Happy Birthday Sybelle!!!

2009-04-13T21:55:00.007-06:00

Today is my mother-in-law Sybelle's birthday. She is an amazing person. She can do it all. Ashlyn aspires to be like her....so should every girl. Sybelle is a great cook. She makes the worlds BEST freezer jam. She is famous for many items from her kitchen...All made with love.

She is very dedicated to everything she does.

We are so blessed to have her in our lives.

Thanks Sybelle for all you do!

The DiVa party...

2009-04-01T10:55:00.020-06:00

Front row L-R -Rose, Leah.

Back row L-R- Ashley C. Nora, Alisha, Ashlyn, Ashleigh H. Sarah, Emma and Kelsey

Racks and racks of Dress-up. Real Dress-up, with real High heels. Total Pampering with Mani's and Pedi's, complete with any Color of Nail polish that Sparkled with Glitter. Ten great Friends to share it with. Fun Music. Very large Catwalk with a large wall mounted TV at the end to watch yourself on. A full blown Fashion show emceed over the Karaoke machine. Tea party complete with Pink hot cocoa & darling Cupcakes. Wonderful Gifts. Oh, to be Princess for the day.

Sometimes i wish i was eight again....

It really is a girl thing!!!!!

2009-03-28T21:13:00.002-06:00

This sums up our day....I will post the festivities later.

Good bye sweet Gus...

2009-03-20T11:42:00.005-06:00

{Dad Blackham and Gus}

Our sweet Uncle Gus passed on to be with is darling wife Lulie. My Sam's full name is Samuel Angus. He was named after this amazing man. We are sad for our temporary loss, but thrilled for those who have gone before.

Angus Udell Blackham

The mortal life of Angus Udell Blackham came to a peaceful conclusion on March 18, 2009, due to complications associated with Parkinson's disease.

He was a beloved husband, a devoted father, grandfather and great-grandfather, a patient teacher, a loyal friend and a valiant disciple of Christ. All who knew him were better as a result of that association. Udell (as he was known in his early years) was born April 16, 1926 to Angus L and Mary Berniece Christensen Blackham. He spent his early years in Ruth, Nevada. He married his "Sweet and Lovely," Lula Belle Bamgartner, on June 5, 1946, in the Salt Lake City Temple.

Their marriage was blessed with six children: Patricia (Merlin) Fish of American Fork, UT; Kathie (Alfred) Adams of Lindon, UT; Valerie (Douglas) Whitaker of Provo, UT; Udell (Pheobe) Blackham of Alpine, UT; Laurel (Dru) Nielson of Fairfield, CA; and Marshall (Nikki) Blackham of Houston, TX. Their posterity to date numbers 100.

After graduating from White Pine High School in Ely, NV, Angus (as he was known for the balance of his life) served in the United States Navy. He later graduated from Brigham Young University and then received his Masters and PhD in Chemistry from the University of Cincinnati. He accepted a professorship at BYU in the Chemistry department where he worked for over 40 years, specializing in the field of Organic Chemistry.

The hallmark of Gus' life was his ability to accept all and love unconditionally. Countless people were the recipients of his kindness, generosity and understanding. Two scriptural references provide an appropriate description of his character, "A [man] in whom there is no guile," and "I the Lord love him because of the integrity of his heart, and because he loveth that which is right." His affable nature especially endeared him to his children and grandchildren. He was quick with a wink and a smile, abundant with praise and possessed a delightful sense of humor. He served faithfully in many capacities in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, including his service as a Bishop and twice in the Philippines as a missionary with Lulie as his companion. Their influence is still felt there through the Livelihood Assistance Foundation, an organization they established to promote self-reliance by teaching life and employment skills.

His wife, his parents and a sister, Mary, preceded him in death. He is survived by a brother Sam (Sybelle) Blackham, a brother-in-law Lee (Maxine) Bamgartner, and his entire posterity.

Because of his love and commitment to the people of the Philippines, the family suggests, in lieu of flowers, donations be made to the Livelihood Assistance Foundation, 1632 S. 200 E., Orem UT 84058.

Not for the faint of heart.....

2009-03-17T20:08:00.000-06:00

I warned you.... Pretty gross, huh? This is what we ate: Green eggs and ham with shamrock and blarney stone pancakes. Not the best looking meal.....Ash enjoyed it :/

Happy St. Patty's day!!!

Ashlyn wants you to notice her earrings!

I love to see the TEMPLE...

2009-03-14T16:22:00.011-06:00

I'll go inside one day...

We enjoyed our tour of the Draper temple. Ashlyn loved the baptismal font. She asked if President Monson would let her be baptised in it. So sweet!

Draper Utah Temple celestial room. {Amazing chandelier}

I wanted to stay there all day....

We went with mom and dad Blackham, my sweet niece Morgan, and my new "niece" Brinda and her fiance' Danny.

We are grateful to live close to so many beautiful temples. I loved that Ashlyn was able to experience the beauty. It is a little funny though...her fave room was the brides dressing room! What a girl:) Ashlyn looks forward to doing baptisms for the dead and getting married in the temple. She wants to build a house by the Draper temple so she can see it every day!(me too) She calls it her great Grandpa Archer's temple.

Temple pics courtesy of LDS.org :)

Life is so boring.....NOT!!!!

2009-03-13T17:32:00.002-06:00

I wish i knew what boredom was.

Bad, Bad,Bad....

2009-03-07T20:27:00.002-07:00

I promise there will me a new post tomorrow! Life is so crazy!

All I Have To Say IS...

2009-02-14T18:52:00.004-07:00

I am SO happy! One down six to go.....
Thanks, Mom and Dad for watching Ash so we could go together and then celebrate after.

You have GOT to be kiddin'...

2009-02-08T21:05:00.003-07:00

Today I found MY FIRST GRAY HAIR! All i had to say was....You have got to be kidding! I am blaming it on school sucking the color right out of my head. I pulled it out and prayed that six more won't come to the funeral. Please pray for me and my hair....I think i am going to lose it! Not my hair, just my sanity!

Eight....

2009-02-08T16:12:00.005-07:00

Here are the Rules:
1) Post rules on your blog
2) Answer the six '8' items
3) Let each person know by leaving them a comment

8 FAVORITE TV SHOWS
1. Grey's
2. Lipstick Jungle
3. American Idol
4. Lost
5. Housewives of the OC
6. Scrubs
7. Closer
8. Saving Grace

8 THINGS I DID YESTERDAY
1. Bought the wrong NCLEX book
2. Went to BYU bookstore(unsuccessfully)
3. Studied
4. Had a mild anxiety attack
5. Ate take out (thanks Sam;0)
6. Bought finishing touches for the bathroom
7. Drank a diet Mt. Dew! I know---BAD!!
8. Walked out of Great Harvest because the "kid" didn't wash after taking out the trash! EEK!

8 THINGS I LOOK FORWARD TO
1. Ashlyn's Baptism
2. Graduating
3. Days off
4. Single piece of Dove dark at the end of my day!
5. Dates with Sam
6. Sunday dinners
7. GIRLS NIGHT OUT!
8. Bedtime

8 FAVORITE RESTAURANTS
1. Tepanyaki
2. Carrabba's
3. Chili's
4. California Pizza Kitchen
5. Zupas
6. Café Rio
7. Happy Sumo

8 THINGS ON MY WISH-LIST
1. Health
2. Organization
3. Happiness
4. Cleaning lady(I stole that one..thanks Tiff, great idea)
5. To be a stay home mom
6. More hours in the day
7. Girls trip
8. School was DONE!

8 PEOPLE I TAG
1. Heather
2. Lisa
3. Natalie
4. Anne
5. Caytee
6. Sybelle
7. Marianne
8. Katie
And everyone else!!!

Bummer....

2009-02-02T12:10:00.002-07:00

Phil Says "Six More Weeks of Winter!"
Phil's official forecast as read February 2nd, 2009 at sunrise at Gobbler's Knob:

Hear Ye Hear Ye
On Gobbler's Knob this glorious Groundhog Day, February 2nd, 2009
Punxsutawney Phil, Seer of Seers, Prognosticator of all Prognosticators
Awoke to the call of President Bill Cooper
And greeted his handlers, Ben Hughes and John Griffiths
After casting a joyful eye towards thousands of his faithful followers,
Phil proclaimed that his beloved Pittsburgh Steelers were World Champions one more time
And a bright sky above me
Showed my shadow beside me.
So 6 more weeks of winter it will be.

My Monday Must HAVE......

2009-02-02T09:11:00.008-07:00

Crystal Light Focus. Yummy! With JUST the right amount of caffeine. I am pleased to announce I have only had 4 diet Cokes or diet Dr. Peppers since Jan. 2ND. I feel so much better!This drink is my new friend. Many of you know, I have Crohns' disease. I constantly worry about my digestive health. Soda pop makes me feel very...um, icky. I didn't make the association until I went off pop. I have often wondered if it was my Crohns'. Now I know. No pop.. No icky feeling. I can now understand what being in remission feels like. Thank you Kraft foods for this pick me up!
Now, if I could just look like the girl in the ad :)

What a GAME!!!!!!!!!

2009-02-01T21:40:00.003-07:00

Waiting for our counter top...

2009-01-18T19:41:00.005-07:00

Friday, we drove to Murray to pick up our new counter top, and needless to say, it wasn't ready. It was ready the day before, then it was damaged and had to be repaired. Please bear with me as this story has many layers...We were told before we left home the granite would be ready in 1 hour, so we headed north. Stopped and had a nice lunch before picking it up. When we got there it was not ready! They had only 10 minutes warning that we were coming, not the hour and a half they should have had. Big surprise. The sink was not set yet. As I walked through the shop I watched them place the pink sink holder stuff (i am sure that is the correct word) in. I also should mention I had a nightmare the night before that the sink fell out and broke in half. At this point the sink is hard to find, and I could not replace it! As you could guess I was totally freaked out about "giving it 10 min. to set" Really? A heavy under mount porcelain sink being held only by a few little dabs of pink sink holder stuff???? We were told to go to lunch (which we already had done), and come back in 10. I am anxious to see my new counter top, but it is upside down :( I could see the particle board and the bottom of my sink....I am freaked that there is not enough "pink stuff" holding the sink in. I know these are professionals, and i am the niece of the owner, and the cousin of the manager, but this did not keep them from damaging it before!!! OK, I know accidents happen, but.....I have waited too long to get this bathroom finished. I wanted it perfect! What would I do with an expensive polished under mount hole cut in a perfect 15" circle of charcoal mist granite. If the perfect 15" sink was broken? It might just take another 3 months to find another "perfect sink, faucet, and granite". Those who really know me know this is not an exaggeration! "please, just put in more "pink stuff" I never asked, I am not brave that way. It caused me a lot of stress the rest of the day. Sam kept telling me over and over, that these guys do this all the time...... Did my dream come true? Stay tuned...

We decided to drive and "find something to do". We drove up state street, turned down Williams Ave. to see Grandma and Grandpa Jaeger's old house. Then, headed back up state street where we found the beginning of the UTE parade. Parades and traffic can be a bit of a pain, so Sam quickly got out of there! (GO UTES!!!) Ash then asked if we could go to the president's house (the state capitol.) It looks a little like the WHITE house right? She is so cute!

That is the perfect thing to do while we wait! I have never been, that I remember, and it is free!

I love the front doors!It seems someone has a sense of humor.

We called this the YODA marble.

After touring the capitol, we decided to go carefully pick up the counter top. As we drove down capitol hill, we noticed we were right in the middle of the U of U parade. Oh! Help us. This entire time I am worrying about the sink falling out and breaking, and Sam is stressed about being in the parade detour. All of this made for a joyous 40 minute-yes, it took 40 min to get to Murray from down town. While stuck in the traffic, I decide to call my cousin Dustin, to ask if the counter has been sealed. He tells me," It doesn't take long, just have them do it when you get there." OK! Again, I am not brave enough to ask for what I want, just like wanting more pink stuff! I figure this allows more time for the "pink stuff" to set. I will wait. After the fun car ride we arrived still married, and anxious to see our "master piece." I stay in the car with the back door open, waiting for Sam to run in and have the sealant put on. 20 minutes later the worker found the sealant. All this time I didn't know what was going on. Too scared to see. I am imagining Sam in the shop trying to figure out how he is going to tell me that my sink is broken, then... Out he comes caring my counter top. It is still upside down and I cannot see it, but the sink is in place. Whew! The worker is a little hyper, running around sliding on ice! I am thinking it is a miracle my sink and granite made it at all in his hands. A bit of a bull in a china shop, I think. Very nice guy though! He ended up saving us later. He helps Sam place it in the back and, says he is going to get the back splash. At this point we have been sitting in the car with the back open for 25 minutes, waiting for all the pieces. He runs in and Sam follows...... 10 minutes later, Sam comes out to tell me he'd DROPPED my back splash and needs to "fix it". Are you freaking kidding me! What a day. 10 minutes later, all pieces were in the back of the pilot and yes this was 45 minutes total with the back of the car open, with all twelve dome lights on.... You guessed it, the battery was dead! What more can go wrong? Hey! It is me, a lot more could go wrong. It took another 10 min to find jumper cables. I know Mom, I should have had them in my car. OOPS! The hyper worker flew around the corner in his car, and saved the already interesting day. The car started without any trouble! YEA! That is when Sam noticed we were almost out of gas! Again, are you freaking kidding me? We can't turn the car off now, it wont start unless it charges for a while! At this point I am laughing, so hard I almost peed myself! Sam is not entertained. He is so upset that 1- the cables weren't in the car 2- I had my cell phone plugged into the car charger (I still think it was all the dome lights;) 3- we didn't fill up before now. I am sure my stress had something to do with his sour mood also! We drove in silence, making it home on fumes and a prayer. Sam's mood lifted when he saw this.........

Don't you love it!!! We had a flood a "while" back, and were forced to remodel. This is the first partially completed project. Hey, I am human. Full time nurse, full time school, full time mom, most time wife. It takes a lot of time to do these things, RIGHT??? Okay, probably not this long. At this rate I might have the rest of the house done by 2010!

Now, I just need to find a way to tell Sam that the paint isn't "quite" right!

Wish me luck!

Tag, I am it... One word.

2009-01-17T22:41:00.003-07:00

One Word!
It’s not as easy as you might think to use only one word answers! Change the answers to suit you and blog it!
1. Where is your cell phone? Purse
2. Your significant other? Sam
3. Your hair? Curled
4. Your mother? Judy
5. Your father? Bob
6. Your favorite thing? Family
7. Your dream last night? None
8. Your favorite drink? Bull
9. Your dream/goal? Health
10. What room you are in? Office
11. Your hobby? School
12. Your fear? Cancer
13. Where do you want to be in 6 years? Happy
14. Where were you last night? Home
15. Something that you aren't? Sister -in-law
16. Muffins? Carbs!
17. Wish list item? Health
18. Where you grew up? Utah
19. Last thing you did? Facebook
20. What are you wearing? clothes
21. Your TV? off
22. Your pets? insane
23. Friends? Supportive
24. Your life? Crazy
25. Your mood? content
26. Missing someone? indeed
27. Your car? White
28. Something you're not wearing? Glasses
29. Your favorite store? Target
30. Your favorite color? Red
31. When is the last time you laughed? tonight
32. Last time you cried? today
33. Book? Nursing
34. One place that I go to over and over? hospital
35. One person who emails me regularly? Lisa
36. Job? Blessed
37. One place you would like to go right now? Hawaii
38. One person you think will blog this too? Marianne
39. One TV show you watch all the time? Greys
Here's what you are supposed to do...and please don't spoil the fun...
Copy and Paste into your blog!

HaPpY nEw YeAr!!!

2009-01-01T16:42:00.005-07:00

Dobie(aka D3)

What a great New Year's eve! I was cancelled from work ,therefore I was able to party hard!( 12 hour shifts take the life out of you) We had take out Chinese,played Guitar Hero, Wii Music, and our family favorite the Price is Right!

"Smashlyn" rocking out while Chase plays Barracuda

We played Guess who I am.(very fun BTW)

We also did the sing along from Momma Mia

No pics of that, I was too into it:0)
Rang in the New Year with fireworks and great family!

Happy Birthday...Christmas Eve....

2008-12-24T16:51:00.011-07:00

The 24Th of December is always a busy, yet fun day. This year we started our day with a Christmas Eve breakfast feast, a few presents, then I was off to do a few last minute things while Ash and Sam played with their gifts. Christmas Eve cannot begin until Mom's Birthday is celebrated. That is the absolute RULE!

Her Birthday fun includes finding a restaurant (that is open), then closing the place down(not because we take long, because the workers want to go home).We go to mom's and dad's to celebrate mom being one year older. Give gifts( NO Christmas wrap-another RULE). Take birthday pictures...
This year mom was recovering from knee surgery the week before-bless her. She smiled through it all, and was only on Motrin!

Happy Birthday MOM!!!!

Christmas Eve begins....

Then off to bed with visions of sugar plums....... In our matching shiny red Jammie's, thanks to Lisa!

Happy Birthday Mom!!!

2008-12-23T22:12:00.013-07:00

A mother is she who can take the place of all others
but whose place no one else can take.
~ Cardinal Mermillod

Let It Snow...

2008-12-21T14:05:00.001-07:00

Festival of TREES....

2008-12-19T15:09:00.001-07:00

Every year at Ashlyn's school the second grade students have a festival of trees. This was Ashlyn's work of art. All the children were given the same template. Ashlyn wanted a real tree and lights, oh well! We of course had to use the glue gun, which never ends well....Poor Sam ended up with a major burn/blister on his pinkie. We loved the way it turned out. Ash made ornaments out of glittery pipe cleaners and cut an old "dress-up" necklace for the garland. My favorite part is the homemade foil star like the one on her tree:)

Here is the result....

Bowers family Christmas party...

2008-12-13T20:55:00.001-07:00

Four of the five Bowers' boys (Ken, Dell, Bob{my sweet Daddy}, Dean)

I love these guys!
You really cannot get a better group of people together! The Bowers' are so much fun and the most kind and loving family. We had to party without Grandma Jiggs this year, we missed her so. We hope your eyes will be okay...Love you! Hope to see you soon.

My cousin Brian and his Grandaughter, Deja.

Love the chocolate face!

(Courtney, Vicky-hiding, Trayson, Keedra, Brandon, ??, Mariah, Babette, Shaylee)
(Judy{my sweet Mom} and Aunt Paula)
(Ashlyn and Abby)

Thank you Dean and Paula for great food and a great party!

Sweet house...

2008-12-12T21:48:00.001-07:00

Fridays are wild around here.

We spent our night in a sugar induced coma after making this...

This was Ashlyn's idea. Unfortunately, Sam and I had to finish after the "fun" wore off.

Happy Birthday to the man I love...

2008-12-10T19:38:00.005-07:00

Today my sweet hubby turned....One year older!
Happy Birthday babe!

We Celebrated on Monday with his family.

This year Sarah AND Morgan are in Utah! We had a great time.

(Ashlyn, Sarah, Brinda, Danny, Sam Sr., Sybelle, Morgan, Sam , Me)

Sam then spent the rest of the night playing his gift from Ashlyn.

Dinner with my family on Wednesday... (Judy, Ashlyn, Chase, Kim, Sam, Me, Bob)

Happy Birthday Sam, here's to MANY, MANY more!

I love you!

Oh, Christmas tree...

2008-12-04T20:04:00.003-07:00

Three years ago I bought Ashlyn her own Christmas tree. A white tree with pink and purple lights! She looks forward to decorating her OWN tree. She was so excited, she cleaned her room without too much nagging from Mom ;0) She has a darling collection of ornaments. Last year we were given very precious Santa ornaments that belonged to Grandma great. We love these antique ornaments and treasure them so.

Sam helped Ash make her very own star. I love that he made this with her. Sam made a similar star when he was young. It still sits on top of his mom's tree. I love these traditions. I love that Ashlyn calls garland the tree's necklace. This is the most wonderful time of the year. I love seeing Christmas through my daughter's eyes.

Here comes SANTA CLAUS...

2008-11-27T22:05:00.007-07:00

I am Thankful for...

2008-11-27T16:27:00.002-07:00

I am blessed in more ways than I can count. I love my little family. Sam is an amazing husband and the best Daddy a girl could ask for.
I am blessed to have been chosen to be the Mother of the most awesome daughter.
I have been blessed with wonderful parents by birth and by marriage.
I love my sister and niece's and nephew. I am blessed to be close to them.
I am blessed with a home.
I am blessed to have a job I love, and the opportunity to go back to school.
I am blessed with great friends both near and far.
I am blessed to have a Heavenly Father who loves me no matter what.
I am blessed I have a Forgiving Heavenly Brother.
I am truly blessed...

And the verdict is...

2008-11-22T21:33:00.007-07:00

L~O~V~E~D IT!!!

Twilight brought out my inner teenager(scary, I know). I questioned if I should even comment about my feelings, seeing as how skeptical I was about going. I truly went with very low expectations. I did not allow myself to watch any trailers & tried not to get too caught up in the HYPE. I am glad I went, and overall enjoyed most of the full 2 hours. There were a few "cheesy" moments that seriously made my skin crawl(sparkly skin scene). For a 37 million dollar film I couldn't expect a "Harry Potter" production. I didn't, and it wasn't up to "Harry" standards. I do hope the box office numbers will push the budget it deserves for New Moon. I am not ashamed to say I like the "teen flick". I hope to see it many more times. I give it two thumbs up!

Here are a few of my thoughts regarding the casting.

Did not like the "Edward" choice at first... Then he won me over, and over, and over...

EDWARD (Robert Pattinson):

Full Name: Edward Anthony Masen Cullen

Status: Vampire

Date of Birth: June 20, 1901

Date of Transformation: 1918

Special Abilities: Mind reading, Super-speed, Extraordinary strength

"What if I'm not a superhero? What if I'm the bad guy?"

Exactly how I imagined "Bella"

BELLA (Kristen Stewart):

Full Name: Isabella Marie Swan

Status: Human

Date of Birth: September 13, 1987

Special Abilities: Accident prone, Attracts bad luck, Immune to mind reading

"About three things I was absolutely positive. First, Edward was a vampire. Second, there was part of him... that thirsted for my blood. And third, I was unconditionally and irrevocably in love with him."

"Jacob" Darling. Great choice. I cannot wait to see more of him the the next film.

JACOB (Taylor Lautner):

Full Name: Jacob Black

Status: Human Quileute

Date of Birth: 1990

Special Abilities: Fixing cars

"So do you think we're a bunch of superstitious natives or what?"

Emmett, Rosalie, Alice and Jasper

"Alice" was PERFECT!

ALICE (Ashley Greene):

Full Name: Mary Alice Brandon Cullen

Status: Vampire

Date of Birth: Around 1901

Date of Transformation: 1920s

Special Abilities: Can see the future

"Some things are more certain than others..."

"Jasper" creaped me out. He was "icky" to quote Jessica.

JASPER (Jackson Rathbone):

Full Name: Jasper Whitlock Hale

Status: Vampire

Date of Birth: 1843

Date of Transformation: 1863

Special Abilities: Able to feel and to manipulate the emotions of those around him.

"I can feel what you're feeling now -- and you are worth it."

"Rosalie" So Mean, I do not like her at all. Great casting though.

ROSALIE (Nikki Reed):

Full Name: Rosalie Lillian Hale

Status: Vampire

Date of Birth: 1915

Date of Transformation: 1933

Special Abilities: Beauty

"What is she to me? Except a menace -- a danger you've chosen to inflict on all of us."

"Emmett" Loved him. Could not have picked a better actor.

EMMETT (Kellan Lutz):

Full Name: Emmett McCarty Cullen

Status: Vampire

Date of Birth: 1915

Date of Transformation: 1935

Special Abilities: Strength

"He's no match for us, Edward. He won't be able to touch her."

"Carlisle" good, once you got past the horrible makeup job in the first scene. Who doesn't love the character?

CARLISLE (Peter Facinelli):

Full Name: Dr. Carlisle Cullen

Status: Vampire

Date of Birth: 1640s

Date of Transformation: After 1663

Special Abilities: Compassion and the ability to resist the thirst for human blood

"Please don't take offense, but we'd appreciate it if you'd refrain from hunting in this immediate area. We have to stay inconspicuous, you understand."

"Esme" Loved her. Thanks Nat for reminding me how I know her.(Grey's)

ESME (Elizabeth Reaser):

Full Name: Esme Anne Platt Evenson Cullen

Status: Vampire

Date of Birth: 1895

Date of Transformation: 1921

Special Abilities: Loves passionately

"You're what he wants. It will all work out, somehow."

WHAT CAN I SAY??????? Oh! My! "I'm ready"

~Thanks to Yahoo for the great Twilight facts and photos.

Hurry up Friday!!!

2008-11-17T16:51:00.008-07:00

I did not think I would rush out and see TWILIGHT. The thought of standing in lines and fighting for a decent seat made me cringe. I loved the book so much. I am anxious about the movie being too cheesy. And not to mention, I imagined Edward WAY better looking!!!
Today, I actually bought tickets. Girls day out with Heather and Natalie. I am excited and a little anxious. We were able to reserve our seats, that will take away a bit of my nervousness. We will be there at 10am on Friday. There are still tickets available if any of you are interested.

I love FALL!!!

2008-11-01T20:15:00.000-06:00

This is Halloween!!!

2008-10-31T19:50:00.001-06:00

Whole wheat/ banana pancakes, shaped like pumpkins started off our day.Then to school for a parade and party!Visiting the Grandparents.

Dinner: homemade chili in pumpkin bread bowls. Finally, trick or treating with Dad and Dobie!

Talent...

2008-10-30T11:05:00.013-06:00

My husband is so talented. I also love that I get out of carving "MY" pumpkin every year, because he does such a great job. I do clean out the pumpkins though, which to some is worse than carving. I imagine I am performing surgery, cleaning out all the icky stuff. Yes, I am a nurse I do know all the proper terms...

These are Sam's creations this year.This is Ashlyn's creation this year.

2007

2006

20052004

This is the year it all began.

Sam has a great time making these. He just whips these out like it is no big deal. WOW!

Happy Birthday Katie BUG!

2008-10-29T11:49:00.001-06:00

My friend Lisa has waited her entire life for this beautiful girl. Today she is ONE!!!!

Happy Birthday, Heather!!!

2008-10-27T11:57:00.000-06:00

Heather is a great friend & she seriously knows how to shop! Thanks for letting me "hang" with you on your birthday. I hope you had a GREAT day!

You HAVE to see 3...

2008-10-27T11:05:00.001-06:00

I loved, loved, loved this movie. I know that sounds cheesy. I really LOVED it! Everyone, yes, even the dad's need to go. Ashlyn has now announced she wants a PINK sports car for her sixteenth Birthday. Fabulous!

Inspiration...

2008-10-26T21:48:00.001-06:00

Here is a wonderfully written piece about Stephanie Nielson, her fight, and her amazing sisters. Sam and I went to high school with Stephanie's older siblings. We are sincere when we say they truly are a great family.
Please continue to pray for them.
I am so blessed to have my family.
I urge all of you to love this deep.
http//www.azcentral.com/news/articles/2008/10/26/20081026sisters1026a1.html
The song on my playlist is Mindy Gledhill. She is a friend of Stephanie. Mindy performed Saturday night at a fundraiser for the Nielson's in AZ. People all over are helping any way they can. This restores my faith in man kind in this scary world.

Pumpkinland...

2008-10-25T19:40:00.000-06:00

We were up early, then off to Magelby's for breakfast(with the entire BYU's women's soccer team.) We made it to Pumpkinland by 9AM!!! It was a great family day. What a beautiful fall we have been blessed with.

Utah's day at Gardner village...

2008-10-18T22:09:00.003-06:00

Wow!

We decided(after the scarecrow festival was too crowded) to head to Gardner village for a day of girl fun!

The place was so busy. I was amazed at the number of people.

I thought Utah went to Disney for UEA.

Maybe this was Utah's staycation.

After all, it was ours.

This was the highlight of Ashlyn's day. Finding a water snake in the pond...ewww!

She wasn't posing, I swear. What a natural;)

I can ride my bike with no training wheels...

2008-10-17T21:00:00.008-06:00

About a month ago, Ashlyn was "sick and tired" of waiting for Sam to take her training wheels off her "baby" bike. She proceeded to use the weight of the bike to BEND the wheels outward, so they no longer touched the ground. Very smart, this girl. For those of you who are saying, "how old is she?" She is 7 and 1/2. (yes that half counts, unless you are my age) I know that is way too old to begin the two wheeler adventures. We, OK I, have been a nervous wreck about it. We live on a hill. I have had nightmares about bikes, and being unable to stop. This all stems back to my childhood, getting my bell bottom pants caught in the chain. For some reason, I was unable to stop and I ran into our garage. This was very traumatic for me. I have let my daughter suffer because of it. The deal was that we were only going to practice at the park....the nice flat, grassy park. Ash had a different idea while I was at work. She bent those darn "baby training wheels," and took off all on her own. Down our hill she flew. Two wheels, she was able to stop herself, and loved every minute of it. I promptly got the most excited phone call at work. "Mom, I bent my training wheels, and now I can do it myself!" She exclaimed. "Do what yourself?" I asked. " Ride my bike, silly".... I believe I then ranted with her father about how dangerous this is, and why weren't you out there????.... Poor Sam got an earful.

This is were a new adventure begins...

I try to get over my own fears and let my daughter live.

Proud girl, with her new big bike, helmet and riding gloves.

Note her cool gloves like Dad's. I wish I would have had Sam take pics of the bent up "baby wheels" on her too small princess bike.

Oh well.

The most wonderful time of the year...

2008-09-22T18:59:00.002-06:00

I truly LOVE fall....

I wish it could last until SPRING.

Sunday we drove up the canyon to escape the mess we are living in {story another time}. It was beautiful. We are so lucky to live in such a majestic and awesome state.

More of Sam's photos to come...

Happy Birthday, Stud Muffin!!!

2008-09-11T13:43:00.008-06:00

Today is my favorite nephew Chase's

EIGHTEENTH BIRTHDAY!

I cannot believe you are an official adult!

It seems like you were born yesterday. You were the cutest baby boy I had ever seen!

You are now the most handsome MAN! {that freaks me out to type}

You are not only handsome, you are also kind, tender-hearted, and thoughtful.

We are proud of you and all of your hard work!

We are so lucky to have you in our lives!

WE LOVE YOU!

Happy Birthday, STUD MUFFIN!

Happy Anniversary...

2008-09-06T21:36:00.002-06:00

Eleven years ago I married this great man.
We have been through a lot in the NINETEEN years we have know each other. I know, we are too young to have known each other for that long. I was sixteen. Oops, I just gave away my age. Which, I try not to ever do;0 We have been through great ups and very low downs. With these highs and lows has come a greater love and appreciation for this great man I call my HUSBAND. Here's to MANY more BABE!

Then...
Now.
{How is it that men get better looking with age? Not fair!}

Sick DADDY...

2008-09-05T22:36:00.003-06:00

Sam has a pretty vicious cold. While shopping with me after school yesterday, Ashlyn wanted to buy Dad some "feel better" flowers. "Yellow will make him feel much better" she said. She is so sweet and thoughtful. They did make him feel better.

School Bag In Hand...

2008-08-18T22:10:00.002-06:00

I cannot believe my baby is off to SECOND grade. I have such mixed emotions about this. She is so excited to be back to school. No more pestering me about play dates, or doing "something fun". I do share this excitement with her in remembering my school days, so long ago.

BUT...

A little bit of my heart breaks each and every beginning school year. Growing and moving on. Soon enough we will be taking her to college,then walking her down the isle. I feel the years slipping through my fingers. There is not one thing I can do, except love each and every day I am blessed to have this amazing, beautiful, angel in my life.

7 green ribbons...

2008-08-18T21:10:00.009-06:00

UTAH COUNTY FAIR
Ashlyn had a great 4H experience this year.

In return, she won 7 ribbons at the county fair.

She entered a...

Babysitting kit,

Pioneer doll,

Recipe book,

Delicious cookies,

Rag flip flops,

Handmade bookends,

And last, but not least...

Reading project.

Since we were there,

we enjoyed the County Fair experience ourselves.

WOW! I did not know perms were back!!!

And, all of Sam's shirts actually have the full sleeve {how do they rip them so perfectly}

After a few flash back moments to the 80's and the 90's we "cowboy'd up" and went to the

DEMOLITION DERBY

I did not know this sign was in back of us.

{what exactly is "custom" slaughtering???}

He really IS having a great time!

WE all actually, had a great time!

Grandma and Ash ended the night with a 40 second, 8 dollar, FERRIS WHEEL RIDE!

Happy Birthday Kimmy!!!

2008-08-17T21:20:00.011-06:00

Today is my favorite sister's BIRTHDAY!Thanks for being a loving and thoughtful sister and aunt.

Thanks for making me laugh all these years.

Thanks for your selflessness and hair tips-ha! ha! Thanks for being a GREAT sister!!!
I love you with all my HEART.

GO U.S.A.!!!

2008-08-11T14:34:00.008-06:00

I am sure all of you have seen this. If you haven't, watch it NOW!

WOW!

To watch click here...

And, maybe I am watching too much of the

Olympics,

and reading too much...

Breaking Dawn

I am starting to think someone is looking like a VAMPIRE?

Are those.....FANGS???

Is that.....A vampire BODY???

{inhuman speed,14,000 calories a day...who does that?}

I'm just saying...

Does this explain all the world record breaking???

I'll take a deluxe suite for 2,PLEASE!

2008-08-08T01:06:00.001-06:00

My friend who is a serious CRUISER sent me this link. So cool, I want a VACATION!!! Check it out and tell me when we are going...
http://www.oasisoftheseas.com/

Happy Birthday, Bugga BOO, WE LOVE YOU!!!

2008-08-03T00:30:00.004-06:00

Today is my beautiful niece Lacie's' 20th Birthday.

WOW! Were did all the time go???

Happy Birthday Boo! We really do love you!

Families are FOREVER!

2008-08-02T21:38:00.002-06:00

Today was our Bi-annual Bowers family party. We love getting together with our loved ones. My cousins from Idaho and Oregon were here. Grandma Jiggs came up from La Verkin. It was great to see them all. Ashlyn loved seeing her(second) cousins and getting to know them again.

Her name is Mystery...

2008-08-01T21:24:00.000-06:00

Three of the five larvae have hatched. Meet Mystery...

Girls Night Out!!!!

2008-07-30T20:49:00.002-06:00

Thanks to our good friend Lisa, Ashlyn and I were able to have a girls night out.We went to see High School Musical, the play at Capitol theater. We went to a favorite restaurant Tepanyaki, and had sushi and shrimp-YUM!!! Ash and I go there when we are sans Dad ( you know that little thing... Allergy to shell fish). We had such a good time. Ash loved the play. This was the final week for the Broadway performance ending in Utah, were the films were made...

This is her waiting for me to get in the car {hurry up MOM!!!}

Pic while having dinner{notice the chopsticks above Ash's head}
Waiting for the show to start, with souvenirs in hand.

We had great seats- Thanks again Lisa!

Mama Mia!

2008-07-27T21:25:00.007-06:00

I had a great day out with my mom for my birthday Saturday. We had a great lunch, some shopping and then off to see Mama Mia!
Loved It!
Flash back to my childhood...

I was the "Dancing Queen"{ at least at the skating rink ;p }

Everyone loves ABBA.
You should all run, not walk to your nearest theater...
Thanks, Mom for the girls day out!

24th Of JuLY...

2008-07-24T22:26:00.000-06:00

We call her Crystal...

2008-07-22T22:49:00.004-06:00

Today we set our newest family member free...

One out of five caterpillars survived. Ashlyn named her Crystal in the Chrysalis...so cute. After several weeks, and a funeral for the "sisters" that didn't make it. We welcomed Crystal into the family on Monday, July 21st. We LOVED watching something so beautiful take place. The beauty is so different up close. We learned a lot and can't wait for the 5 replacements(all with respective names, of course) to turn into butterflies.{I will keep you posted}

Right after she hatched. Notice her tongue.
When Ashlyn released her, she walked right onto Ashlyn's finger then flew...

She is still "hanging" out around the yard.

Broadway musical revue...

2008-07-18T22:18:00.001-06:00

Ashlyn has been taking theater workshops at the Covey Center for the Arts. We love them, and the teachers. The classes have been a great OUTLET for our own "DRAMA QUEEN." This summer the center offered a intensive Broadway workshop where three groups(age based) put on a fun musical revue. Ashlyn was asked to move into the more advanced class, she sure stepped up to the plate and did amazing. She hit all her marks and sang very well. She performed Oklahoma, 76 Trombones, and Singing in the Rain. The group also sang Lullaby of Broadway and Give My Regards to Broadway. She learned all these in 5 days, not just the songs but the dances to go with them. I was impressed how well she did with so little rehearsal. Truly a NATURAL. Here are a few pics. My camera battery died. These are taken with our video camera thus, the crappy quality.

Give My Regards...Flowers from Grandma and Grandpa Bowers

Costume ;)

American Girl...

2008-07-17T23:43:00.000-06:00

Thursday we went with our friends to see the Kit Kittredge, American Girl movie. This is seriously a MUST SEE. So cute, by far my favorite movie this summer.

I LOVE the 4th of JULY!

2008-07-05T12:23:00.008-06:00

The 4th of July is my second fave holiday. We start our day early to see the balloons, off to breakfast, then to the PARADE! For many years we have stressed about getting a spot on the route.This is something passed on from my Grandpa Jaeger{whom I miss SO much this time of year} He always was up early to save us a place for the days of '47 PARADE. The last two years we have JUST GONE and NOT STRESSED. Take our chairs and find a spot. Makes me SO happy. I love the Freedom Days parade. We then had lunch, took a nap(not Ash-of course...see pic of her sleeping during the Stadium of fire). Then off to dinner at Mom and Dads. We were very lucky to be 8 of the 35,000 people to get Stadium Of Fire tickets(which sold out in 7 minutes!) Ashlyn was excited to see Miley, and we enjoyed the Blue Man Group. Amazing fireworks set to popular motion picture movie theme songs. What a great day!
WE LOVE THE U.S.A.

Wake Up & Surprise...

2008-06-30T11:12:00.010-06:00

We surprised Ashlyn with a quick trip to Mesquite this weekend. Our family makes a trip every year. SO MUCH FUN. We enjoy just getting away. We joke about driving 4 hours just to swim, but OH, Well...

On the road

Hedgie loved the ride!

WE LOVE THE POOL!!!

Ashlyn is such a fish. She loved her snorkle and fins!

Went to see Wall -E...{Please recycle!}

Very cute. Great message.

Summertime fun with friends...

2008-06-29T10:16:00.004-06:00

The last few weeks have been action packed. We had a great time with our friends.
June 18, 2008

Color Me Mine...

Ice Cream and Playtime...

June 20, 2008

Riding TRAX to the Gateway...

Playing in the fountain...

June 24, 2008

Beam Museum